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Old November 7th, 2012, 02:45 AM   #21

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Well, If i get you correctly, Testosterone is a factor of sexual "drive". But I'm talking from a "preference" point of view and how it differs from a subconscious state...
I can only speak of my own preferences. Generally, I prefer women to be shorter than me rather than taller, I prefer pale skin, and I prefer blue eyes over any other colour. I mostly prefer blonde hair but reckon that black hair and blue eyes is a terrific combination. I like women who are not too overweight, but prefer them not to be too skinny either: I love them to be curvy. Ample but not too large breasts and big rounded backsides also hold much sexual attraction for me.

But having said all that, I have no set type. Many times, I find myself attracted to women who don't fit the above descriptions.
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Old November 7th, 2012, 03:44 AM   #22

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Is there a difference between what someone see as a sexual preference and what he sees in subconscious state ?

I'll talk about myself for a starter....

When I'm asked of what type of women I prefer (from a sexual point of view)....As a "first" choice, I'd pick in the most Latino/Middle Eastern.....for example, I like Paz Vega, Salma Heyik, Penelope Cruz, etc....that doesn't mean that I don't have an attraction for other types but its that "Recallability" of a first option when asked about it.....Vs. what do I see in fantasies....When I have dreams of women....almost all women I see are blonde or black !!....I rarely dreamt of a Latino !!!

Does that mean that someone's perception of favourite sexual type is actually wrong ?!
You've just given me a golden opportunity to try out my talent as Doctor Love.

You're picking a Latino in your conscious awake state because the Latino, or rather Latina, is right now the most high profile tribe enjoying great resurgence in the world, constant media exposure and all.

But in your dreams, which is the truer reflection of your deepest primordial desires, you are more intrigued by a black or blonde female.

Well, there's only one way to find out. Like the man said, the proof of the pudding is in the eating.

And I tihink you'd better stop going around telling people that you fancy a Latino, cos you might start getting funny looks from behind yer back, if ya get my drift.

BTW, I could post ya a few nice pics of some fit black or blonde wimmen here. Not sure if I'm alllowed to, though.

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I can only speak of my own preferences. Generally, I prefer women to be shorter than me rather than taller, I prefer pale skin, and I prefer blue eyes over any other colour. I mostly prefer blonde hair but reckon that black hair and blue eyes is a terrific combination. I like women who are not too overweight, but prefer them not to be too skinny either: I love them to be curvy. Ample but not too large breasts and big rounded backsides also hold much sexual attraction for me.
Apparently you have not tasted the thrill of, or acquired the taste for, a taller woman. A much taller woman.

A woman's height is all in the legs. So if you have a woman like 6 inches taller than ya, or a bit more, her upper body and yours would just come to about the same length. So what does that translate into, you ask. Just unleash your wildest and most vivid imagination, then the answer will come to ya. Good luck.

The curves are of course a great 'energiser' for me. As long as it's a guitar shape overall, plus or minus a few inches here or there, that' ll be enough to get me going. Oh yeah, an athletic, well proportioned female body, that really fires me up no end. Brigitte Nielsen in her Red Sonja days would give ya the right idea. And Tonya Knight the Gladiatoress too. And Victoria Pratt. But my ultimate benchmark would still be Ryan Conner. Nobody in this world can beat her. Oh yeaahhhhh.

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I used to have a 'preferred female' picture firmly planted in my mind. I sought those ladies out and married a few of them, much to my regret. I still find myself attracted to that form/shape/look/appearance but am extremely 'gun-shy' about approaching them...in fact I no longer approach them for fear of entering into yet another disastrous and costly relationship.

Nowadays I find myself attracted to women with whom I can establish a good rapport, who have similar interests and who like to laugh. Looks are very secondary in importance, of minor importance really, attraction for me is based much more on good communication, intelligence and sense of humor. Of course if the lady possesses the classic female shape then that's an added bonus.
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Old November 7th, 2012, 10:32 AM   #24

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I used to have a 'preferred female' picture firmly planted in my mind. I sought those ladies out and married a few of them, much to my regret. I still find myself attracted to that form/shape/look/appearance but am extremely 'gun-shy' about approaching them...in fact I no longer approach them for fear of entering into yet another disastrous and costly relationship.

Nowadays I find myself attracted to women with whom I can establish a good rapport, who have similar interests and who like to laugh. Looks are very secondary in importance, of minor importance really, attraction for me is based much more on good communication, intelligence and sense of humor. Of course if the lady possesses the classic female shape then that's an added bonus.
Sounds like you are maturing and "growing up." When we are young our hormones cause us to be attracted primarily to physical atrributes. Possibly something to do with DNA, natural selection, beauty and laws of attraction. However, as we get older we either come to realize living with someone is not based on looks, but more on personality; or as many others do, we just give up and adjust to being by ourselves. However, some spend the rest of their lives living in "fantasyland."
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My wife and I have been married just under 21 years, and I think we are the most opposite types of people you could imagine, but we get along great. I don't really find myself thinking much of other women - I have other hobbies.
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I think but still have a sense of humour towards the matter of sex, but do bugger all about it. Today I gave a cheap ticket in a hotel to an old lady and told her that she could have a dirty weekend. She replied that it was many years ago since that happen and then she wanted to tell us all about it. I think the older you get it just becomes just talk.
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Old November 9th, 2012, 08:30 AM   #27

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Someone should put up a pic of a hot black beauty for Essa. Or he'll just keep on dreaming no end.
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Old November 10th, 2012, 10:29 PM   #28

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Someone should put up a pic of a hot black beauty for Essa. Or he'll just keep on dreaming no end.
You know Hunter never since I've noticed that I started paying more attention to Blonde and black actresses

I've added Scarlett Johanson to my list
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And by the way, I'm a Pisces ! ...... the fantasy side is overwhelming so it might have something to do with it
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Old November 10th, 2012, 10:35 PM   #30

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I used to have a 'preferred female' picture firmly planted in my mind. I sought those ladies out and married a few of them, much to my regret. I still find myself attracted to that form/shape/look/appearance but am extremely 'gun-shy' about approaching them...in fact I no longer approach them for fear of entering into yet another disastrous and costly relationship.

Nowadays I find myself attracted to women with whom I can establish a good rapport, who have similar interests and who like to laugh. Looks are very secondary in importance, of minor importance really, attraction for me is based much more on good communication, intelligence and sense of humor. Of course if the lady possesses the classic female shape then that's an added bonus.
Well, that is quite an experience for you....

Why would this lead you to that perception: " That a relationship with such type of women you like will necessarily turn unsatisfactory "
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